To Love, You Must Forgive
"Forgive...if any of you has a grievance against someone." Colossians 3:13 NIV
It's impossible to love anyone fully and at the same time resent someone else. You cannot give total love when your heart is divided. And a bitter heart is a divided heart. You may be thinking, "My spouse is a wonderful person, but I just can't love him." Look beneath the surface. You may still be reacting to your past and harboring resentment against someone who hurt you. That's keeping you from loving your spouse. And it's not fair to them. Many people have justified cause for their anger. It's said that one out of every three women and one out of every seven men will be abused during their lifetime. But you must let go of the past to get on with the present. To begin loving people, you must close the door on the past. And that cannot happen without forgiveness! So, forgive those who have hurt you--for your own sake, not because they deserve it. Do it so your heart can be whole again. The people from your past cannot hurt you unless you allow them to hurt you by holding resentment against them. Anytime you resent someone, you give them a piece of your heart, a piece of your attention, a piece of your mind. Do you want that person to have that? No? Then take it back by forgiving. Instead of rehearsing the hurt over and over, release it. And you can't be selective in what you forgive: "I will forgive that, but I won't forgive this." The Bible says, "Forgive...if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you" (v. 13 NIV).
This message taken from: Daily Devotional - The Word For You Today
It's impossible to love anyone fully and at the same time resent someone else. You cannot give total love when your heart is divided. And a bitter heart is a divided heart. You may be thinking, "My spouse is a wonderful person, but I just can't love him." Look beneath the surface. You may still be reacting to your past and harboring resentment against someone who hurt you. That's keeping you from loving your spouse. And it's not fair to them. Many people have justified cause for their anger. It's said that one out of every three women and one out of every seven men will be abused during their lifetime. But you must let go of the past to get on with the present. To begin loving people, you must close the door on the past. And that cannot happen without forgiveness! So, forgive those who have hurt you--for your own sake, not because they deserve it. Do it so your heart can be whole again. The people from your past cannot hurt you unless you allow them to hurt you by holding resentment against them. Anytime you resent someone, you give them a piece of your heart, a piece of your attention, a piece of your mind. Do you want that person to have that? No? Then take it back by forgiving. Instead of rehearsing the hurt over and over, release it. And you can't be selective in what you forgive: "I will forgive that, but I won't forgive this." The Bible says, "Forgive...if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you" (v. 13 NIV).
This message taken from: Daily Devotional - The Word For You Today
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